save yourself first

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Hi guys ! 
I hope you guys doing fine , 
Save yourself before trying to lend a hand of favour , help or support  😉 

World demands clever people not emotional fools . 
I know you can be an empathic person like me but that is gonna put you in danger if you don't change your perspective towards human nature , life and society.  

I've had a huge ass experience with people , trying to adjust and find good in people who were dramatic,  moody , egoistic and jealous.  
Some people end up hurting  others , just because they are hurt inside . 
Some hurt others , probably cus they are jealous and in the end , the moral of the story is Never depend of people,  
My friend always told me 
"Janhavi,  you know what , you are all talk and no job " 
This is his greatest comment,  I like it cus it anyway motivates me . 
Glimpse of one of our conversations 👇
Though I know I'm so lucky to have people who know my potential and know how to deal with a girl like me . That even their rudest comments seem meaningful and I do have people who tell me things to put me down and sort of break my confidence.  Well , let it go . 

I know I'm strong & I'm growing more stronger 
Me , myself & I 


I hope you understood this message , 
Like , share & comment ❤ 

Your friend, 
Janhv

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