just realized 😳

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There was this one guy who has 6k+ followers on LinkedIn. Co-founder at connect verse - web3 community at Bangalore.  

Texted me on April 10 2025 . Started conversations after I first replied him. We use to have really long conversations until midnight slowly after we Started talking . 

He asked really intimate questions and naive me blindly replied . He told me he feels connected to me . He told me I've become emotionally naked to him . Honestly to me it never mattered as I thought he's a stranger so I don't have to care . But the month long conversation . Morning noon night , oh yea he asked me out to be his study buddy and I said yes . But it never went well . 
It's 26 of May and I guess I never got to know him. I only revealed myself. Well none of that matters . I 
do it most times . I encounter wrong relations.


Following are the terms that describe me :

"Convenience" — as in “a convenience to others”.

"A placeholder" – someone people only keep around until someone better comes along.

"An emotional dumpster" – harsh but describes when people offload their feelings onto you, then disappear.

"A fallback" – not their first choice, just someone they turn to when no one else is available.

"Expendable" – easily discarded once your purpose is served.

"Used" – plain and raw, but often the truest word.

He disrespected me like shit . Well I learned my lesson. 

I feel like I’m everyone’s temporary therapist, never a real friend.

I’m tired of being a convenient option instead of a valued connection.


Just an experience 🤷
























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