love is a lie

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Growing up , I was very introverted 
Had some tough times leading to lots of flooding emotions and pain .
I always cried within my space,  nobody would ever know about it . 

I always thought that life would get easy when I have someone by my side.  I use to think love is the cure to all the suffering that im going through.  I use to think I'll get lucky when one day someone falls in love with me , never knew why , how , where and whom .
Never knew how to know if it's real cus now it seems so contaminated .

I think " I love you " is just a phrase you use casually and has nothing too huge to mean.

Nobody around me ever understood me nor will the ever do so in future either . 
I'm far intellectual,  introspective,  intelligent than the ordinary I see around me .
I tell this because 
I think people are fool , stupid and dumb ass 

today I'll tell you what a relation is
Every relationship like friendship,  parenthood,  marriage,  romantic relationship ... comes with a price to pay and suffering to bear and adjust.
No one another are same and everyone has their own flaws.  

If love is a pill to cure you from your suffering,  love is a pill , this pill has its own side effects 

I used to be obsessed about the facts and tales of love stories.  

But lately I realized that it's a burden and suffering you choose to pay for .
I'm not saying love is bad bad ... 

Love is not for everybody 

Attraction leads to lust , lust leads to love , love leads to promises and soon it becomes marriage 

Man after marriage has to look after his wife 
Wife has to look after man and so on

It's like give and take 
But no one is gonna count the quantities and qualities.... it could be that one person is putting more efforts than the other . 

Equilibrium looks good in every relationship. 

I found out that im different,  I'm selfish,  I'm ambitious and I'm princess of my life .
I can't bear any other person cus I hate to adjust and I prefer my comfort when it comes to me . 



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