emotional BONDING and it's importance

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Lately I've been feeling incomplete,  weak and sad . I've been feeling importance of things that I've been lacking In my life .

So I tried to find the things that I'm missing and I found that I need to love and be loved . 
And with that love I need to bond , bond so deeply with someone who creates an unbreakable strong bond of love . 

What is bond ? 

the formation of a close relationship (as between a mother and child or between a person and an animal) especially through frequent or constant association.

To bond is to be in relationship.

What is relationship ? 

To be in a relationship means to be related .
relationship (n.) 1640s, "sense or state of being related" by kindred, affinity, or other alliance, from relation + -ship.


A loving relationship is one that is built on trust, mutual respect and affection. It's a relationship where both partners feel safe enough to express their feelings openly, even if those feelings are negative or difficult.
Healthy relationships involve honesty, trust, respect and open communication between partners and they take effort and compromise from both people. There is no imbalance of power. Partners respect each other's independence, can make their own decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation, and share decisions.

What is love and why is it important?

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Love encompasses a variety of strong and positive emotional and mental states, ranging from the most sublime virtues, deep interpersonal affection, and simple pleasures. No matter who you are, loving and being loved are the only things that can bring you happiness.




But why is love so important? Scientific studies have shown that being in love causes our body to release feel-good hormones and neuro-chemicals that trigger specific, positive reactions. Levels of dopamine, adrenaline and norepinephrine increase when people are in love.

When we value love, not only are we willing to sacrifice for others and support them through thick and thin, but we also realize there's nothing wrong with being vulnerable. Those bonds are unique.


I believe that one day i will be in a relationship with a man , I'll be loved  like never before .
And I'll love him . I'll be his angel , his muse. 

But how to love somebody,  well how to love ?

How to fall in love with myself ?

I need to be a strong lady so that I can be there for someone else . 

When I stay strong lady  , im referring to being optimistic and feminine 

It all starts with you . When u start loving you , you attract love to yourself.  




“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” – Oscar Wilde



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