problems are always your own fault
12 june 2k23
Ok it's like you go on your way in life and there is a puddle and you jump into it , let your shoes get nasty . The better act , if you wanted to keep your shoes tidy shall be to ignore it and move ahead by the side way .
A woman got angry and hit her car into another vehicle.
Why ?
She was focused on her anger rather than the road.
Why ?
Because there was something on her mind that was irritating her .
Oh what could that probably be ?
She was not able to handle the trafic .
Why ?
Cus she was not very experienced at riding a car .
Why ?
Because she didn't practice that skill regularly .
So now I'm bad with holding a control on myself, I talk away when I feel disturbed by somebody else's behavior, I react to it .
My reaction always creates problems.
Now that I know where I go wrong , I will build the skill of " self control "
How did I find where I do wrong ?
I observe myself.
How did I do that ?
I hold Calmness in my soul and noticed everything I do . When I notice myself, I analyze all the options I could possibly see. Then I see outcomes of every options and yeah there you go that's it .
The better option is the one that doesn't stretch the situation.
Puddle on the ground was not a problem but jump that let to nasty shoes was the problem.
Did u understand what I'm tryna say ?
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