janhv's blog

Bravery is when you don't rely on people to sync ur mood to things they do .  Q) Why do I obsess over unfinished relationships? The simplest explanation for why people have a hard time moving on after an unfinished relationship is that there was no closure in the relationship. Obsession starts because one feels like there was not an adequate ending, and is often left wondering why it didn't work out as planned . Ans.: Dealing With Repressed Emotions Sometimes when you truly love somebody,  it's better to let them go to allay the misery.  In the end of the day , lmao be happy that this toxic shit is passed outa ur life . It's dead , you got over it . You moved on , you've been working on yourself and are moulded into a better version of you . You feel more like the true you , you realize the fact that you are destined to be at something more better than the past .  Be grateful thar you got a chance to seek this mistake before you got more further....

Growing up , I was very introverted  Had some tough times leading to lots of flooding emotions and pain . I always cried within my space,  nobody would ever know about it .  I always thought that life would get easy when I have someone by my side.  I use to think love is the cure to all the suffering that im going through.  I use to think I'll get lucky when one day someone falls in love with me , never knew why , how , where and whom . Never knew how to know if it's real cus now it seems so contaminated . I think " I love you " is just a phrase you use casually and has nothing too huge to mean. Nobody around me ever understood me nor will the ever do so in future either .  I'm far intellectual,  introspective,  intelligent than the ordinary I see around me . I tell this because  I think people are fool , stupid and dumb ass  today I'll tell you what a relation is Every relationship like friendship,  parenthood,  marriage,...

29/6/23 Putting out comments in haste is a terrible act .  8/08/2023 At this moment in life , I'm suffering more than ever before but I'm also stronger than before . My faiths got deeper , my trust in God is more than my trust within myself.   I feel like the one who has true faith in goodness will never fear , near blame , never regret but only learn , heal and enlighten  oneself about this glory of universe.   Myself,  huh I'm a mess , everytime I encourage bad situations I'd run into bad thoughts n thts where I probably went wrong all times , most times .  Here im happy that I finally got these thoughts in my mind of no more worrying about the future,  no more feeling sorry , guilt and broken . I'm here extremely gifted with abundance of strength to reach my home which is far destined . Somewhere some place which I always saw in fairytales and pictured in my mind . I feel loved when I talk this way to myself.  I feel blessed when I fe...

Ever wonder about how our relationship has lost its joy. Ever since we both have got so comfortable with each other not caring about impressing each other with our flirty behavior.  Why are we always worrying about problems as if our worry is gonna solve em . Worrying is actually gonna make things worse . It's just a stress , it never changes the impact of problem apart from its intensity on our mental well-being.   I know we have problems but worrying is not the right way to react .  Who Are the Worriers? Why are some people so prone to "what if disease," while others merely worry about something when it happens? What if we get lost not worrying , aware and concerned about our finances , problems and instead get lost in making our today a better day . Seizing this day that we have at the moment , in the present,  this very second as I'm writing this ... I'm thinking of u.  I'm thinking about the way these words would make you feel .    We are hum...

Lessons Learned from Complaining About Others and Not Being Conscious of My Reactions In life, it’s easy to fall into the habit of complaining about others and external events, especially when things don’t go our way. However, this mindset often does more harm than good. Reflecting on my experiences, I’ve learned several valuable lessons from this habit: 1. Complaining Drains Energy Constantly complaining about others and uncontrollable events consumes a lot of mental and emotional energy. Instead of focusing on solutions or personal growth, I found myself stuck in a negative loop. This realization taught me to conserve my energy for positive actions and thoughts. 2. Lack of Control Over Others One of the biggest lessons is understanding that I can’t control other people’s actions or external circumstances. Complaining about them is futile. Instead, I’ve learned to shift my focus to what I can control—my reactions, attitude, and actions.  3. Self-Reflection and Accounta...

Value everything else one day you might lose which you took for granted.  Time is precious  Time gone never comes back  Health is precious  Body harmed lives with scary scars  Body harmed will leave you weak  When you take things for granted you will lose them one day  Everything comes with a cost  If you earn  You pay income tax  If you love someone  You have to pay emotions  If you eat  You have to buy food  If u drink water You have to buy water purification machine If you sleep  You have to buy bed  ........... I wonder  How would living without a cost feel I think that will be boring  This monopoly game feels great  But moral of the story is Value everything that you have  Respect the people who have crush on you Respect your fans  Respect your body and eat healthy  Count your blessings  Respect yourself  Never give up  Respect the time that you h...